My dear Mocha

Story 1

He is an indoor cat and we got him spayed so that made him unable to fight other cat.

I was not at home when it happened.  A strayed cat got in my in-laws' house and he got involved in a fight.

He was shaking in shocked when I got home.  And was fierce and tried to bite to everyone who tried to touch him.  I sat near him and he slowly crawled to me. 

I was touched that he found his comfort in me..sobs..

Story 2

He does not really like children.  Every time there are children around, he will hide.

One day our cousin's son tried to play with him.  He started to feel intimidate and started biting.  I tried to calm him down by gently rubbing his head.  And the kid tried to do so, too.  Mocha's quick reaction was to bite the kids fingers but unfortunately my hand was closer to his aim.

But in a second he stopped when he realised that was actually my hand.

I was touched that he stopped himself from biting me despite his quick reaction.

I love you, too, Mocha.

Hopeful

Bismillah.

Now I am training myself to be positive which is not easy. (Hah, negativity spotted!!)


It's about time that I'm realising it now that I am pretty much a negative person.  Well, that has to change.  NOW.

Let us all have a positive day and life ahead.

If people complain, instead of being defensive, I should find room to improve.
If people being rude, well, there are others who are nice, polite and considerate.  I'll focus on those nice people and just ignore the rude ones.

InsyaAllah - towards a better human being.

Pot and kettle..

When someone (on her/his own social media medium) calls someone else 'keyboard warrior' - doesn't that make her/him one too?

That's another pot calling the kettle black, I guess.

Chill people, chill...

Or whatever.

@accesories.essentials

Today I created one new instagram account for my small side business of accessories and clothing for women.

I hope this will be a beginning for a new adventure.  I will put my heart and soul into this, InsyaAllah..

Come "visit my ig" ehehehe..

Okay I'm old..

Bila tengok trend budak-budak sekarang kat media social yang macam hipster ke fashionista or whatever it is (pose yang wajib adalah dengan handbag dan pandang bawah)...

What came to my mind coming across these pictures:

1. Who took their pictures with such poses like that like all the time?

2. They sure have lots and lots of clothes and handbags and shoes, etc etc...

Okay.  Maafkan makcik.  Makcik tak condemn.. Some of the pictures are really really cool.

It's just that I don't get it.  Especially my number 1 question.

Spaying Marble - Part I (Intro)

I so happen to own a very out-going cat.  Marble, that is.

We got her spayed on 27th December 2015.

Putting E-collar is totally not a good idea.  In case you've been wondering what's E-collar is, yeah, you can Google it.  The idea is not to let her lick the incision site to avoid infection.

The first day after the surgery, we (by we, I mean Mr. Husband, eheh) tried to put it on Marble.  And yep, it lasted less than 2 minutes.  She struggled and somehow managed to 'escape' out of the collar.

Sigh..sigh..sigh..

And we tried to cage her which was another disaster.

She wouldn't rilex at all, trying with all her might to squeeze out of the cage.  She didn't really sleep.

She even managed to actually get out of the cage that first night after the surgery.  My bad - I didn't lock it properly.

The next day, after seeing her so suffered and miserable in the cage, we decided to let her out.  Yeah, stupid, I know, I know..

So the consequences - on the 5th day, although the wound looked fine, but there was a swollen and redness part around the incision site.  I panicked a bit and we straightaway went to the vet.

Unfortunately, Marble needed to undergo a second surgery.  Letting her out of the cage was indeed a bad, bad idea given her hyperactive and outgoing personality.  She went up and down the stairs, running and jumping around which were prohibited for cats after spaying. 

According to the vet, due to her unlimited activities there had been some complication.  But lucky enough we brought her to the vet as soon as possible so it was not yet an emergency case.

Poor Marble...

Okay.  To be continued...