Thursday, September 21, 2017

Making Peace with Those Who Forget

There are certain people in our life that we would do and sacrifice anything as long as they are okay. 

But sadly, for some reason, eventually, they just forget. Or leave.

As much as we want them to stay, we just have to learn to let go. Because no matter how hard we try, some people aren't meant to stay. If it's not by choice, it would be by fate. 

But it doesn't have to be a bad thing. All you have to tell yourself, that all of the hardships and sacrifices that you were willing to undergo with/for them meant something. That you were a good person. That you were capable of putting aside your own comfort for other's sake. That you were a strong person. someone with the heart of gold.

So don't regret it. As for the people who forgot about it, and forgot about you,  then, obviously it's their loss, for not wanting to be around someone who is selfless, who's willing to undergo storms with/for them.

After all, it's not your fault that people change. You can still be that good person you once were by making peace with that fact. And then, move on. And continue making this world a little better for everyone else around you.

2 comments:

Kay said...

baca blog Izza ni jadi suatu terapi.

Tapi ada masanya terfikir lg, cthnya entry ni, mcm memujuk diri sendiri yg berasa ditinggalkan/dilupakan seseorang, bagaimana pula seseorang itu berasa kita yg melupakan/meninggalkan mereka?

Payah kan? Semua nak piker adoi

mygoldpen said...

Haha..habis tu, jadi terapi ke jadi makin serabut ni 😂😂

Orang yg rasa ditinggalkan tu, sebenarnya ditinggalkan ke tak? Kalau tak, nak kena make it clearlah kat dia yang dia tak ditinggalkan pun.. salah faham ni memang masalah masyarakat kan? Byk masalah dalam dunia boleh setel kalau kurang salah faham ni kan?